Look who made it to year 1!!!

I can’t believe that it’s been a year since I started this little blog. The idea that anyone but my friends would read it, was very preposterous to me. I’m not a writer and although I’ve been keeping a journal my whole life, it’s been mostly thoughts that I’ve kept to myself. But sometimes you hit that emotional wall, and you need to let shit out. And let shit out, I did. I outed myself and some people in my life, but the whole point for me was to be able to work through my feelings and be open to letting people know that I’m not as strong as I appear to be. Before I really start losing it, I want to thank you all. All of you who have read and commented, and given me your wise words of encouragement. It means more to me than you’ll ever know xo


*Illustration by Brad Amorosino*


Forgiveness is the new self-care

I want to apologize for my absence but I was very ill and swimming in the bullshit as per usual. I mean my dating life is dry as fuck but there are those moments where I find myself in a shit storms of my own doing. You would think after kissing countless frogs, bums and undesirables, I would have the common sense to not even look back. BUT, your girl is nothing if she’s not consistently making BAD decisions about the men she chooses. It’s always risky when you allow someone who’s hurt you to come back in your life, because 9 times out of 10, they’ll screw you over in the exact same manner they previously did. And yes I got burned yet again by the same loser. I’m obviously a glutton for punishment but it’s also made me wonder why I decided to give him another chance. I don’t think my level of desperation has sunk that low (yet..) but I think I was mesmerized by the fact that he was crawling back to me (who doesn’t like to see a man on his knees) and that he had rehearsed his little presentation quite well…

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